Love Among Playdates and Parenting
One sunny morning, Riley—mother of one very energetic six-year-old (though some days it felt like four kids’ worth of chaos)—was scrolling through JustSingleParents.com for what felt like the hundredth time. She was done with dates who vanished the moment she mentioned her daughter Emmy, whose energy rivaled an entire team of theme park performers.
Then came Caleb. His profile was simple: a photo of him piggybacking his son, a bio full of humor and honesty: “Looking for someone who won’t run when my kid asks for a third ice cream… or when I suggest a trip to the dinosaur museum.”
Riley chuckled quietly. Finally—a man speaking her language.
Their first chat started with a topic most couples might find dull: school schedules and babysitter rotations. But that honest exchange about time, limits, and priorities became the bridge between them. Caleb mentioned his son Leo’s dream of becoming a scientist. Riley shared how Emmy loved painting portraits of her “family”—including their imaginary dog.
They agreed on coffee. Just coffee. No pressure. But when they met, conversation flowed like a river—no pretense, no walls. Caleb spoke about his divorce, his fear of failing as a dad without a partner. Riley opened up about her worry that her child might struggle to accept someone new.
What made it beautiful was that neither tried to pretend single parenting was easy. They talked about it with respect—for themselves, their children, and the journey they’d walked.
The kids’ first meeting happened by chance. Caleb arrived at the park with Leo just as Riley and Emmy were feeding ducks. The boy marched straight over and asked if Emmy knew how many ducks could fit on one log. The kids burst into giggles, and the adults stood there—surprised, relieved, and quietly hopeful.
From then on, they began building something new. Not perfect. Schedules clashed. Once, Leo forgot his soccer cleats. Another time, Emmy insisted Caleb draw a masterpiece with her before bedtime. But these small, everyday moments became the foundation of something lasting.
Caleb taught Riley that love doesn’t always begin with fireworks—it can grow in quiet exchanges about who picks up the kids from swim class or plans a picnic with dinosaur-shaped sandwiches.
And Riley showed Caleb that you can be a strong, devoted mother and still open your heart—without losing yourself.
Now, months later, they sit together on the porch, watching their children play in the yard. Emmy draws colorful chalk masterpieces on the sidewalk; Leo helps her count the “world’s largest rain of dots.” Caleb gently squeezes Riley’s hand.
- You know, - he says, -I never thought I’d meet someone who truly gets what ‘the last night without a babysitter fee’ really means. Thank you for being here.
Riley smiles.
- Thank you, JustSingleParents.com. But mostly? Thank you for a profile with no beach photos and no ‘seeking adventure’ cliché. That was the real adventure.
Because sometimes, love doesn’t start with a spark—but with a simple “I get it.” And that, more than anything, is priceless.